I used to be the blogger called YAL Book Briefs, but I grew bored of the handle and changed my name to Howdy YAL. I also respond to MJ. I like to read, write, eat truffles, and watch bad Lifetime movies.
http://the-toast.net/2013/11/12/a-female-author-talks-about-sexism-and-self-promotion/
While I'm a feminist and do think that there is probably boys club in the industry, I don't think people for the most part judge BBA behavior based on gender.
Those remarks to me are like Miley Cyrus's remarks on how she's a feminist, except maybe a little more eloquent.